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this week in gender bending: international week

This week’s links have an international focus, to illustrate how gender bending is indeed a worldwide phenomenon. Here are a few links that really caught my eye:

herbivore boys – men in Japan are rebelling against the typical ‘macho’ male stereotype.

queer China -  in a Danwei tv interview, the organizers of Beijing’s Queer Film Festival discuss the fight for queer acceptance.

US gay marriage ban – here in the US, California’s ban on gay marriage is being challenged in the Supreme Court.

honor violence – gay Muslims are facing homelessness and other issues after being rejected by their families.

Keep it queer out there; queer visibility is a definite necessity in the fight for acceptance and …

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"no homo": homosexual fear and loathing in the rap community

I have heard through the internet grapevine (grape-tubes?) that young people have a new phrase to ward off the terrifying prospect of being mistakenly identified as homosexual.  So the next time you’re drunk and telling your frat bro how much you love him, simply follow it up with “no homo” and he’ll know that it’s still just a hetero bromance between you.  Worried about buying a guy friend a beer?  Still want to give your tackle football buddies a friendly slap on the ass after an excellent turnover?  “No homo” is here for you!

Now, to be honest, I hadn’t heard the phrase “no homo” before a couple of days ago.  I was browsing Facebook when I saw someone wearing a t-shirt that said “ARMY: NO HOMO” in their profile picture.  My interest was piqued instantly.  The shirt was decidedly professional looking, and after a short round of searching I discovered that it was once a product offered by the often irreverent and sometimes offensive BustedTees.  The “Army: No Homo” shirt is now notably no longer available, but the URL and photographic evidence remain.

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zavi squees about things

Yesterday, I was walking home from work, listening to Athens Boys Choir and thinking how super awesome it would be one day to see him in concert. Imagine my surprise when I came home and saw an email in my inbox that he would be playing in Seattle next week – I almost exploded with the sheer squeefulness of it all. Everyone in the Seattle area should come!

Another thing that made me squee a bit this week was my discovery that Express now carries a men’s XS size. Other small-framed genderqueers probably understand my excitement; it’s very hard to find well-fitted men’s clothes when you are only 5’4 and 125 lbs (which is my case, anyways). Express is admittedly a bit expensive (I only buy from the discount bins), but they generally have good sales. Ditto for AE, one of the other few men’s stores that consistently stocks XS sizes. And when buying clothes online, always remember to check out sites like retailmenot, where you can always find discount codes!

Another exciting discovery was learning that Original Plumbing Magazine had released its first edition of …

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website revamp and $7 etsy sale!

We are back up and running, as I am sure you can see. I just wanted to make a quick update to say that we’re having a $7 Etsy sale–everything in our Etsy store has been marked down to $7 and most items have free shipping! So if you had been pondering treating yourself to a coin purse, now is most certainly the time!

I am also currently harassing Zavi about getting hir adorable hamster phone charms up on the website. We shall see, we …

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