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QMR: sordid lives

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Sordid Lives: When forced to return to his small Texas hometown for a funeral, a young gay man must finally come out to his family, and the family as a whole must deal with its many secrets.

Country: USA, 2000

Original Language: English

Rating: 4/5

Zavi thinks: It takes a few minutes for this film to get rolling, but once it does, its complex layers of dry humor make it absolutely hilarious.  Billed as a “black comedy about white trash,” this film perfectly captures the unique nuances of being in a large Southern family, from the idea that ‘a-statement-isn’t-judgmental-if-you-say-bless-their-heart-at-the-end’ to the concept that ‘even-though-everyone-knows-we-just-don’t-talk-about-it’.  This movie isn’t just for the Southern niche, however.  Anyone who has ever left a small hometown for a larger city and experienced the challenge of coming home as a different person will relate to it.  This movie is endearing, silly and weird all at once and is great for group movie nights.

Panda thinks: I wasn’t sure what to think of this film when I first saw it …

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QMR: fried green tomatoes

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Fried Green Tomatoes: Through visiting an elderly lady at a nursing home and listening to her stories, a middle-aged Southern women learns to take pride in her femininity and take control of her own life.

Country: USA, 1991

Original Language: English

Rating: 4.5/5

Zavi thinks: So, the one-line description of this movie makes it sound like it was meant to be a Lifetime movie for middle-aged married women.  It’s not – this movie is simply very hard to summarize (though its seemingly innocent appeal made it the first queer movie I ever watched – and with my conservative parents at that). The one-line description, though technically the plot of this movie, is not the reason to watch “Fried Green Tomatoes.”  This film makes the top ten list because of the queer love story that is framed within it – a tale of powerful love that overcomes all cultural and social obstacles. Mary Louise Parker is super hot in this film. So is her love interest. You have to watch it.

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QMR: brokeback mountain

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Brokeback Mountain: Beautiful and tragic tale of two ranch hands who meet and fall in love as young men, but are forced by society to live out their days as heterosexual males, hiding their relationship from everyone around them.

Country: USA/Canada, 2005

Original Language: English

Rating: 5/5

Zavi thinks: For those who think that homosexuality can be “cured” or “suppressed,” this is a cautionary tale.  For these two men, the suppression of their love for one another only leads to hardship for themselves and all of their loved ones. This story is only one of the many untold queer tales about the heartache that can result from suppressing one’s true desires.

Panda thinks: This movie means a lot to me on a variety of different levels.  When I was younger, living in a small town, this film was the first openly queer movie ever made available to me on a mainstream level.  I remember watching the trailer over and …

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